#HiddenHarm - do YOU see what they see online?

Published: 10 April 2018

Thames Valley Police and the NSPCC have joined forces to tackle online child abuse and further equip parents and young people with the tools to stay safe online. Here's how to spot the signs of online child abuse, and what to do if you do.

What is online child abuse?

Online abuse is any type of abuse that happens on the internet, whether through social networks, online gaming or mobile phones. It can take many forms, from young people being persuaded to share sexually explicit images of themselves, to being threatened, intimidated and harassed via the internet.

Any child or young person that uses the internet or has a smartphone could be a victim of online abuse regardless of their age, gender or background. That’s why it is really important that we all understand the signs to look out for that could indicate a child is being abused.

Signs of online child abuse

The signs aren’t always obvious but there are some you can look out for, for example:

  • Spending more time than usual online or on their phone
  • Being secretive about what they’re doing or who they’re talking to
  • Hiding computer screens or taking phone calls in rooms away from other people
  • Engaging less with family and usual friends
  • Sudden personality changes or severe mood swings
  • Having new things like phones or clothes that they can’t explain

How to keep children safe online

The internet plays a big part in most of our lives so it’s important we all understand the risks associated with being online as well as taking simple steps to help keep children safe:

  • Understand the types of social media available to children and young people
  • Know what your child is doing online and talk to them about it
  • Set up and manage parental controls on all your family’s devices
  • Reassure your child that they can talk to you about anything that is worrying them

Suspect it. Report it.

If you believe a child you know could be a victim of online abuse tell someone.

Contact the police on 101, or 999 if you believe they are at immediate risk from harm. Alternatively you can contact the NSPCC helpline on 0808 800 5000 for help and support.

For more information visit thamesvalley.police.uk/hiddenharm